DESPERATELY SEEKING LOVE ?
  To all of you out there who are desperately looking for love, I have  one thing to say: Simply stop being desperate. Trust me: Other single  people can smell desperation a mile away, and to them it is a huge red  flag. I know this may be hard to do sometimes, but you must learn to  relax and play it cool.  Now, I know what you are thinking: that everyone who comes to me for my matchmaking services   must be desperate. Not so. Most of the successes I have are with people  who have happy, full lives and are ready to find someone to share their  lives with. If you talk to many couples, they will explain to you that  love came their way when they least expected it. So my advice is to try  to not expect it.  In today's dating world it can be difficult to  play it cool when you are trying to find someone to connect with, but  give it a try.  I cannot tell you how many calls and emails I get from  people who are simply trying too hard. Take the word "desperate" out of  your vo...